F**k You I’m Me # 9 - Why AM I Single?

I've been asked this question for years                                   

Thus I've decided to answer it

The question is “Why are you Single?”

Typically I would respond

“Because the right man hasn't approached me yet”

Or

“I don’t have time for anyone, I’m too busy”

Or

“I want to know the same thing” lol

Now these responses are true

However

They were at different times in my life

I’m now 30 and I was asked the same question yesterday

My response was “I don’t know but I do know”

Crazy, right?

Actually it makes perfect sense

Let me explain

Having a preference is a great attribute

It keeps an individual aligned with reality

Thus I have my preference and over the years it’s been adjusted

So the question is where do I stand now?

To be more in depth “What do I want in a MAN?”

So here we go

Although I don’t seem like it

I’m a simple woman that loves traditional Men

With a twist if you will

Educated and Professional

Meaning business man by day

Thug by night

Knows how to put me in my place just right

The normal guy

The Alpha man 

Rock with me for a minute

I love chivalry and gentleman

Not temporary gentleman but a full-time worker

I like a Man that is patient and Kind

Thus I can be very aggressive and impatient

There must be a medium

He must be willing to take the wheel

Without direction

As I may travel the distance for True Love

Test the boundaries

Just to make sure he is where I belong

He must be interested in ME

Not the idea of me

He must be willing to grow with me

Not against me or surpass me

To understand me is to know me

To know me is to let me guard down

To let me guard down

I’ll have to trust him

To trust him is step one

Which will lead to step 2,3, and so on

I want intimacy

I want chemistry but more so a connection

I want loyalty without question, allegations, or baggage

I want a soul mate, marriage, and kids

Preferably I want us both to share the experience of our first

Not my second or his third

I want a Man that is secure within his skin

Can look at me and own the words

I’m all she needs

More importantly he knows

Satisfaction is guaranteed

Dealing with a woman like me

I want a Man that will not use my emotions as a target

Invest in my heart and soul

Look beyond my physical beauty and love me past my flaws

Be my strength when I’m weak

Lend me a hand when I don’t ask for it

Be my supporter and friend

Homies until the end

Friends before Lovers

That has the passion to build an empire together

I want a KING that’s self-made

A ride or die brother whom feelings will never fade

I want a Godly man

I want the Man that’s meant truly for me

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